Though it has only been a handful of times that I have attempted to take my own life, I think about suicide almost everyday. Those thoughts sit and fester in the back of my mind, concealed within the murky depths, waiting to lunge out. They await my inevitable downfall. A second of self doubt, a feeling that the world would be a better place without me in it. A sense of guilt, that I’m holding those around me back from living their lives. In these moments, I feel worthless, insignificant and grotesque. I feel like a monster that is feared by children in the dead of night. I’m a mythical creature, the body of a human, head of a beast.
Sometimes, when life becomes too overwhelming, these thoughts come rushing to the surface, sinking me lower into desperation. In these moments, I think of suicide as a way out, an exit from my own mind. It promises release from the chaos that my body is engulfed within. A promise of silence. A promise of security from my own threat of existence.
But I don’t want to die. I just want to start living. Those moments of pure self hatred have caused me nothing but torment, but at the same time, I would feel numb, paralysed. Because eventually, you hurt so much, that you stop feeling anything at all.
The thoughts that I have scream in my mind. On the outside I am silent, but on the inside, the noise is deafening.
I have envisioned my suicide in countless of ways, how I would do it, how long it would take. But I can never master the courage to do it. Which makes me realise that maybe, somewhere inside of my eroding mind, I‘m not ready to go yet. I just want relief from this hell that I’m living in.
It’s like being in a constant battle with yourself. Not wanting to live, but not wanting to die either. Just waiting for something, anything to give me purpose.
Sometimes, I can go weeks without having these thoughts and can almost feel like I’m starting to regain composure. I might even start to feel again. But soon enough it comes crashing back, it’s impact more fierce and deadly.
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